Eight life lessons learned from a juggler

Eight life lessons learned from a juggler

I love being a public relations consultant for the past few decades, and have enjoyed representing New England's largest and longest-running Renaissance Faire for the past five. Running your own PR firm can be fascinating, and we are required to keep all the “balls in the air” at all times. Just like a good juggler at the Faire, I’ve applied lessons learned from observing master performers, including my favorite secret: the big “grand finale” is a simple compilation of many smaller successes.

With the help of some curious characters, I’ve learned some life lessons on success and overcoming limitations. Whether you are striking out pitching a story or creating a clever idea, or just need extra motivation for a personal goal, we all need tips to keep our minds focused on our goal, and our energy focused on the steps needed to achieve that goal.

1.   Timing is everything. Enough said.

2.  Applause energizes: create a “kudos file”

Early in my career, a mentor shared with me some advice: create a plain hanging file folder to collect all your positive emails, raves and kudos, job reviews, client congratulations and awards. When you need a boost or motivation, this is your go-to destination for quick and positive affirmation… a physical “you can do this!” reminder. Performers thrive on applause. Professionals need to create their own private applause track.

"Paolo Garbanzo" at King Richard's Faire, Carver MA

"Paolo Garbanzo" at King Richard's Faire, Carver MA

3. Restate your goals

From nun to nanny, no one mastered focus and juggling better than sweet and firm Maria Von Trapp. She had the right idea when she hit the reset button for her young and restless charges by singing, “Let’s start at the very beginning…” and stated their shared goals. Make sure your objectives and strategies are clearly agreed upon with your client, put in writing, and then frequently checked in on… and adjusting quickly when necessary.

4. “Ohm” your success with an affirmation, or mantra

This is personal.  Everyone has a catchphrase, mantra, or even photo or video that inspires them. Mine is “Make an impact, not an income.” Keep your mantra visible on your desk or computer desktop. Performers often get into a meditative state to get through an act(ion) without fail... or find their own way to focus.

5. Pack your stopwatch, compass and map

Similar to having a solid plan, trust your juggler's trusty stopwatch (time management), your inner compass (instinct) to guide you, and your map (your plan) to give you the data and tools you need.

6. Data wins

Whether you use project management software, an app or spreadsheet, or a beautiful journal, analyzing your own patterns and “data” is key to achieving success. Notice when you seem to stall and when you best make an impact and get the best results. Even the act of record keeping makes you more mindful of your achievements, and their predictors and patterns. A juggler focuses on the throws (the action), not the act of catching.

7. The evolution of large scale wins: baby steps

Behind the scenes, I watch master performers practice at every opportunity, fail often, ask for help, and work tirelessly to combine small skills into larger tricks. Same goes for innovation in business: learn to love the process of failing, assessing, learning, and then focusing on how/why you succeeded. Master performers carefully craft their smaller skills into combinations, then it becomes easier to pair up combinations into a “grand finale” that wows the audience.  Or in other words, how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.

8. Sometimes you just need to improvise

Life is unpredictable. Be ready to get creative and be curious about what is happening around you. "Chance favors the prepared mind," according to famed scientist Louis Pasteur, and history is filled with serendipity stories.

Photo: Julie Dennehy

Photo: Julie Dennehy

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